A strong foundation in marriage is built by both parties. When one party feels entitled to their decisions without consulting the other, that marriage will die on arrival. Why my wife cheated on me with my best friend bothered me. Not anymore though since I found out the reason and blame myself.
The ladies on my opposite table are chatting and laughing contagiously. One can see they are having one of those happy moments. I approached them to say hi and we struck a conversation. The next minute, we seem like people who have known each other for ages. It’s getting late and we have to part ways but not without Cindy’s phone number.
Friendship begins.
The night seemed longer than expected since I was eager to call and say hi to Cindy. I make sure to be an early good morning bird to her. She is not fully woken up but our morning conversation is flowing fine. I request for lunch date and we agree.
She is one hour late but no big deal to me. We get to talk about lots of staff and go back to work. We both work in the same town which makes it easier for us to meet. After work, I pick up the ladies from work and drop them at their apartment. They happen to be close to my neighborhood. We bid goodnight and promised to see each other the following day.
Will you be my girlfriend? Why my wife cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody in my workplace is noticing my happiness and wonders whether I have won a jackpot. This is more than a million wins. We meet for dinner and the long-awaited question finally pops. Will you be my girlfriend? Yes, I will. The response is a dream come true.
Cindy is a lady who cannot wait to correct one when wrong. She is everything in a woman I want as my wife and accepting to be my girlfriend means a lot. We are moving so fast but there is no way I will lose her to someone else. We are best of friends in such a short time and there is a lot to learn from her.
Will you marry me?
After six months of dating, it’s time to make her my wife. Who wouldn’t want such a woman as a wife anyway? This weekend is her birthday and I will make it special for Cindy. My heart skips a bit since her response to my long-awaited request will be either negative or positive.
On her birthday evening, friends and family are enjoying themselves to the fullest. My fiancée is wearing a beautiful red gown which fits her figure perfectly. I walk to where she is and go down on one knee. Will you marry me and complete my life? All eyes on us, she turned and with tears in her eyes said yes.
Our colorful wedding finally takes place.
Two weeks later, we tied the knot in a colorful wedding attended by hundreds of people including our bosses. What an honor! Cindy is a very friendly person who has no room for hatred and hypocrisy. Sometimes she goes overboard to help those in need.
When I come home with my friends, she is super accommodating and entertaining. No dull moment when around her. Her killer body figure is admired by many. Sometimes jealousy takes control of me seeing men stare at her whenever we walk together.
All is not well.
Three years in marriage, I became toxic and unreasonable. I began to suspect my wife based on my imagination. She stopped working when my insecurities took a bad toll in her life. The stress I caused her led to ulcers and anxiety. We had one baby girl and my marriage was in bad shape. My best friend was noticing my animosity towards my wife and warned me severally but I was too proud to hear.
He became her confidant and they became closer by the day. Honestly, my insecurity and jealousy led my wife in finding peace and happiness in another man. I cannot blame her though since it was my fault. By the time I realized my mistakes, my wife had lost faith, love, and interest in me. She was already in love with him. Why my wife cheated on me with my best friend was my fault.
The ugly turn of events hurt me to the core. As much as I wanted to blame them, it was too late since the room was created by me. I tried to redeem my marriage but it was like collecting water poured on the soil. Perhaps it was time to work on myself and move on. We divorced and she got married to my best friend.
When they say you do not know what you have until you lose it, it’s true. Looking back, I had the best wife but due to my stupidity, she is now happy with someone else. Have you ever been in such a situation?